There’s a HUGE difference between ruminating about what people MIGHT be thinking and empathy.

Explore the community at khayrab.com/community

Teaching

• How last episode’s persona gets you in the right mindset to network and connect without anxiety

• Why Ramadan is a great time to experiment with your personal brand

• The art of getting out of your own head (we had an AMAZING discussion about this in the community, where members shared how quick their experience from awkwardness to confidence was. I was bummed that I couldn’t post it)

This Week’s Exploration

1. If you haven’t already, get and fill in the persona template at khayrab.com/blog/empathy-marketing

2. Write down your answers to these 3 questions:
   How might you frustrate or be a frustration to them?
   How are you meant to serve them to attain THEIR goals?
   How could you provide more healthy motivation for them to attain THEIR goals?

Teachings

• Why it's hard to describe Visibility Ease as a helpful person

• People-pleasing

• Ambition-Pleasing

This Week's Assignment

• Take note of what downside of helpfulness comes up for you this week

• Consider how being helpful sometimes traps you in secrecy, selfishness, and disconnection with reality

Recommended Resources

• Course Class: From Persecutor to Challenger (aka Ambition-Pleasing)

• Course Class: From Rescuer to Coach (aka People-Pleasing)

• Course Class: Why is it hard to ask for help when it would make your life easier?

• Article: Why you don't like help when it would make your life so much easier and 4 steps to change it

• Note: Courses are only available to community members and program members