Khayra Bundakji | خيرة بندقجي

When certificates, overwork, and leadership workshops don’t fix that feeling of being invisible to your dream employer, investors, clients, team members, and peers

I work with sincere impact-driven experts & entrepreneurial leaders who struggle with visibility.

This struggle shows up as procrastination, disgust with influencer culture, imposter syndrome, presentation panic, and a broken exhausting work-life balance. As a result of my program and trainings, they (and maybe you!) receive clarity on what opportunities they truly want, why they deserve it, who to connect with to make it real, and what to easily say. 

✨ But I have a radically different approach to personal branding and confidence-building

My highest intention is to give you a truly sustainable mindset shift that will change your relationship with effort and impact. Imagine connecting with and engaging others giving you MORE time than what you have now instead of another task on your to-do list. Allow me to re-write that for you: You can create new visibility goals that will GIVE YOU TIME and not be another exhausting obligation. 

This program is influenced by my MBA and past in marketing and communications, but its effectiveness lies in my shy past as an anxious procrastinator with a 2.5/4 GPA and several failed semesters. 

The transformation needed to somehow get a fresh-grad corporate job with an annual salary of $80,000 while having a past of ADHD, half-baked initiatives, and clinical depression is not a coincidence. This transformation was a journey of focus, perseverance, and baby steps that I have packaged in my curricula. It is my life’s legacy to empower others to have the same mindset shift with much more speed and clarity.

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3-Month Program

Why three whole months?! You tell me.
How many one-time workshops have you been to and a year later realize you don’t remember anything from it?

The full program of online classes, worksheets, and meeting structures is magical in providing you with an automatic set of tools, also known as visibility habits. I’ll speak more on this magic later. The program is not JUST about content creation or networking or income goals (which are all very important!). You KNOW it can’t be only about these things because you’ve tried the “push through” tips and “believe in yourself” quotes. You’ve tried the content calendars, the 5-day challenges, the downloadable plans, and the fool-proof checklists. 

I’ll be the first to admit these quick-fix options do “work”… Because you feel better. You get “clarity” and “confidence” that tend to fade away. Most of all, you are SO convinced these quick-fixes work that you blame yourself when they, repeatedly, stop working. I intend to radically impose self-esteem and self-compassion on those who prefer sustainable impact over fake attention.

This is my last warning, this program is magical, but…  

  • It is NOT temporary relief that will keep you in your comfort zone

  • It is NOT a one-size-fits-all trick to get attention

  • It is NOT an excuse to keep overthinking instead of facing reality

  • It is NOT an excuse to keep overdoing instead of facing intimacy

Being invisible when you sacrifice so much and practice high ethical standards fucking sucks is disheartening

Visibility training helps to sustainably relieve the frustration of being sincere in a world of empty attention. Your loved ones, dream employer, teams, favorite clients, and future peers 

  • Don’t seem to see you as you’d like them to

  • Keep giving you annoying advice and menial work that has nothing to do with your goals

  • Don’t understand what you do, or don’t “get” why it’s important

  • Don’t help you while they help other less competent people

  • Take you for granted, but are proud of other less ethical people

OF COURSE this would cause barriers to productivity and visibility! For many of my clients, misunderstandings and struggles are not limited to their career. This is crucial to tackle because we are not employee-beings or human-doings… 
We are human beings. Our one whole soul coincidentally has numerous roles that feed on each other. When in harmony and fueled by Truth, these roles give us a rich and rewarding life.

There is no excuse to procrastinate progress, so don’t make any up

I believe so deeply in this curriculum, that I provide 3 FREE hours of the program with NO obligation to continue and NO credit card information to give. As a professional rationalizing excuse-maker, I assure you, there is no actual reason to avoid the two Foundational Calls and the reflection exercise in between. These calls are crucial to the program but incredibly powerful on their own. 

Our first Foundational Call is a one-to-one non-judgemental exploration of where you are, where you want to go, and the magic of what’s possible in between.

Outcomes of the 3-Month Program

It’s not JUST about content creation or networking or income goals (which are all very important!). You KNOW this because you’ve tried the “just say no” tips of boundary work, the “believe in yourself” quotes, the downloadable content calendars, the assigned action plans, the printable checklists. This program focuses on mindset & habit outcomes – That magic I was talking about earlier.

💎 Self-Promotion: We start out with clear measurable objectives in your journey that act as the guiding star of the program. Between us, this clarity alone takes you so much further than most people, because you can finally describe your wants instead of suffocating in what you should want.

💖 Self-Confidence: Behind every feeling of being confusingly invisible is the inability to see our true selves. By working through common visibility barriers like panic, comparison, and self-sabotage, you will have practical confidence in yourself. This is not an ego boost or tips on how to be arrogant. This is the skill of seeing your abilities as valuable to who you’re meant to serve.

Self-Efficacy: The whole 3 months is focused in accepting reality, recognizing your resources/barriers, and getting into an iterative flow of achieving goals – Basically, working towards your goals with ease, self-respect, and self-compassion.

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Experience of the 3-Month Program

When you start the program, you get access to an immersive, confidential, safe, and intuitive ecosystem in my app. Consider it as being able to walk into my office whenever it suits you.

Why immerse? Why an app? Why THREE months?

Because it’s shocking and horrifying how often you make plans to “get out there” just to… Not do what you said you’d do.

Well, that sneaky and alarming “no progress” stops here.

  • Live sessions should NOT be lectures. Our sessions should be a safe space for you to reflect and shift and get solutions, not me talking at you. I provide you with resources you request as classes, courses, or articles to look over when convenient for you.

  • Planned actions shouldn’t be shame magnets. You pick choose your actions and commitments during our sessions

  • It’s OK to forget what we talked about. I take the notes for you and provide them to you.

  • I’d be surprised if you DIDN’T get distracted while connecting with me. I work with clients on my own app, free of today’s typical social media distractions on WhatsApp, email, and other platforms we think help us get work done but just pull us into holes.

  • I hope you’ll have questions and reflections about your commitments. You will have a private safe chat on my app open whenever a question or thought pops up about our session, your visibility, or the plan/actions.

  • Digital is great, but not when you have to remember passwords. I provide you access to just one place for online classes, notes, our 1-on-1 chat, and resources. Complete with social login.

A Strong Foundation for Natural Productivity

The first 3 hours of the program are free with NO obligation to continue and NO sneaky payment info to be collected. Purposely designed to erase any excuses to start, the 3 hours of Foundational Meetings are created as the backbone to our program. Upon committing, the 1 hour Orientation erases any excuses to navigate or avoid my app, your plan, or our agreement. The 1-2 hours Exploration Session is so incredibly juicy because we get to the root of your invisibility experiences. I help you discover the objectives that makes sense for the upcoming 3 months.

For external objectives, I’ll do my homework and audit your online presence, or provide you with an 360 assessment of your in-person reputation.

Accountability Support and Mindset Magic

Throughout your program, I don’t force you to do actions 💕 Instead, I help you navigate the barriers so your actions fit inside your life. Here’s where my coding background and MBA come in handy as I’m so used to iterative and experimentation design. For those with high standards, iteration and experimentation that “risks” your image is incredible uncomfortable, but it is life-changing. My clients have a track record of experiencing less shame in visibility and more clarity in the big picture, both of with lead to getting things done.

Just for You

Depending on what program you sign up for, I offer different levels of ongoing support, but will always help you navigate barriers and help mirror celebrations to you. The aim of different programs is to fit our time around YOUR life and YOUR goals. 

You’re no longer alone! It can be overwhelming to focus on yourself while trying to identify your dream audience and keep an eye on your objectives. Allow yourself to be helpable to what will truly help.

Following my framework, you graduate with a real set of skills that can help you when I’m not around. You will truly know that valuing and expressing yourself is NOT scary… In fact, you may even enjoy it :)

Or perhaps you’d like more options of how we can work together?