Posts tagged visibility
Acting out and lashing out can help you discover yourself

Links

  • Explore the community: http://khayrab.com/community

  • The Mental Meanderings of Waseem.Space podcast - Home of the 3rd Cultured: https://waseem.space/podcasts/

  • The Diggin'It Podcast (Arabic): https://waseem.space/the-diggnit-podcast/

Discussion

  • Shoulds and how it gets us to suppress our feelings/needs

  • Examples and our experiences with acting out and lashing out

  • The right way to learn about your values, who you are, and what you should present about yourself (spoiler: there is only a right way)

Exploration

How do you lash out or act out?

What's the pattern you see?

What does it tell you about your values and what's important to you?

ClarityKhayra Bundakji | خيرة بندقجيacting out, should, control, action, self-sabotage, overthinking, visibility, gunk, self-compassion, comparison, socialization, impact, 100% visibility, expectations, self-discovery, guest
Why we've been talking about feelings before self-promotion

Being "helpable" (i.e. vulnerable) is a mindset for connection and collaboration… That’s why your personal branding efforts have felt empty and has fallen flat.

A summary of what was covered and prep for what's coming up.

This Week’s Exploration

  1. List out all the people that you hope to impact or influence through your work

  2. Categorize them if you haven’t already. Examples: Manager, potential employers, clients, potential clients, end users, colleagues, university admissions

  3. Pick ONE that you’d like to fully explore next week

Music by ItsWatR from Pixabay

ConnectionKhayra Bundakji | خيرة بندقجيgoals, visibility, self-promotion, impact, 100% visibility, confidence, receiving help, vulnerability, influencer culture, self-compassion, influence, collaboration, connection
Arriving at Visibility Ease

Teachings

  • How are habit of visibility is affected by ALL our past experiences

  • Visibility Habits

  • Myth of Arrival

This Week's Assignment

  • What do you think will happen when you reach total and complete ease with visibility?

  • What material things will you have?

  • Who will like you? Who will respect you?

  • How will you feel?

  • Bonus: What currently gets you to feel that way a little?

Recommended Resources

ClarityKhayra Bundakji | خيرة بندقجيvisibility, 100% visibility, goals, expectations, fear, socialization, hesitation, action