Visible in Vulnerability
Here’s a collection of blog posts that sum up how I keep showing up visibly despite my fears of criticism, judgement, and unwanted attention 💕
Articles written as I was finding my healthy balance of being ONLY 100% visible:
When you search “Personal Branding Services”, you’re met with design agencies promising a polished visual representation of who you are, copywriters promising a specific tone on your website, and motivational speakers promising that when you know who you’re talking to, you can get out there in a big way and create a community.
I used to offer those same services, but found that my clients were already more than capable of that. I tend to attract clients who are excellence-seekers and course-junkies who go for certificate after certificate. The missing piece that I truly help with is getting them out of overthinking and overdoing, so they can get into compassionately connecting with audiences and reality.
The tools of power, authority, and control that we’ve been provided from our modern society only gives us the illusion of being our true selves. This causes pain in us that comes out as procrastination, imposter syndrome, and comparison. Finding the 100% line helps us set up the boundaries and self-compassion to get back to our authentic selves. Here’s 5 steps on how.
As many of us shift into the new new normal of relaxed pandemic safety regulations, I’ll be the first to admit that promotion (for personal or company use) and feelings are WEIRD.
There’s no longer a textbook solution to move forward! The most effective strategy is to go back to the MAIN POINT of personal branding and confidence in yourself: Uniqueness. You already have a uniqueness, simply because there is only one you. Here’s how to make the most of it.
Any time you have been told to take an action (press a button, watch a video, listen to something, buy something, take a decision, followup, consider a concept, or subscribe) you have been presented with a call to action. This may have happened in a phone call from your friend, while looking at a website, while reading a post, while watching a show, or even while reading a cereal box. Find out how to make your very own ✨
Is the fear of being judged, annoying, or being vulnerable from being visible to people whose attention you need? Your boss, your prospects, your potential customers, or even your friends and family?
Stop promoting yourself from a place of obligation and use that super power of overthinking in the way it’s meant to be used: Empathizing.
Imposter Syndrome is the feeling of not being expert enough, good enough, intuitive enough, smart enough, able enough to do/say what people expect of you even though there is daily evidence that you already are doing and saying just that.
Here I break down your relationship with feeling like a fake and what you can do about it.
My relationship with the unknown is very known by all who know me. My organization, talks on anxiety, habits of analysis paralysis, and my bucket list all indicate the unknown scares the daylights out of me. And here’s the biggest unknown yet.
The easiest way to find out if this article will apply to you is to go into the moment of your self-edit. When you’re about to post on social media and you decide to backspace and reword, what makes you do that? Go back to the last time you edited yourself before publishing. Connect with that moment of doubt. Now… Which of the following three thoughts were at the front of your mind?